Before a dream is realized, the Soul of the World tests everything that was learned along the way. It does this not because it is evil, but so that we can, in addition to realizing our dreams, master the lessons we’ve learned as we move toward that dream.  That’s the point at which most people give up.

Paulo Coellho, The Alchemist

I absolutely love this quote from the book, The Alchemist. Life in general, be it relationships or following dreams, require nurturing and continual commitment. Most of us just run away and give up on growing relationships with ourselves, a higher purpose or people in our life. I’ve found personally that these tests in life are exactly what I need to help me just stop and observe what is going on. Inquisitive questions, and not judgments, help me get started on looking at what’s going on the inside and outside. Everything represented on the outside is just a mirror of what is going on within you. Your nutrition influences your self care; as well does your relationship with yourself influence your health.

So, if your dream is to be thinner or healthier, what has the discomfort with your current state of being taught you? That you’ve been consuming nutritionally deficient foods or far too large portions? That you lack energy due to lack of movement? That taking medicines are burdensome? Or plain that you don’t feel good about yourself? Then master these lessons and move slowly toward being the dream that you want, i.e. a healthier or thinner you.

The same applies to other areas in your life – relationships, career or wealth. Ask observational questions to grab a hold of what you need to learn. As an example for your career – if you dislike your job – ask yourself if the current discomfort might be there to motivate you to create an opportunity that you’re truly passionate about. The important part is to remember not to give up! Grab a hold of the learning lesson – it will move you forward – toward that dream that’s fueling you. Your dreams deserve action.

I’m looking forward to seeing you express your uniqueness in the world. For more information on how I can help you get clarity on creating your own personal legend through your personal brand, click here.